That you are here is indication there is something for you to create, be and do. With every new idea your life becomes a canvass to be filled. There is nothing to complete because life is always in motion, life is always evolving and you are always growing. Nothing you have done so far was the end only the first in the series of steps waiting for more to be added to form that which you will become. Worry not that all the education, jobs, activities, or creations do not seem to go together for they will all mesh together as the collective ingredients in what you will create, be and do in the future.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Never keep your “Fat Pants”, save for a, “Rainy Day”, buy “Health Insurance”check the box, on a form, “Single”

Never keep your “Fat Pants”, worry about saving for a, “Rainy Day”, intentionally buy, “Health Insurance” and if at all possible don’t ever check the box, on a form, “Single” Inform the Universe that you expect to succeed.

Good day to all, from my Skycastle in Germany where the morning has begun with the promise of sunshine and bliss.

The title of today’s article may seem a little puzzling and at best, according to popular belief, unsound advice, but hang in there for clarity.

Today what we are talking about is not setting ourselves up for failure or attracting failure. In our habit of action and thought, every day, we may do things that seem logical, sound and responsible. However, often those things we do, that are considered responsible or logical are really opening our self to the event you are trying to avoid in the first place.

Never keep your “Fat Pants”: Keeping your fat pants, just in case you gain those few extra pounds back, sets you up to gain them back. Keeping them, just in case, tells the Universe that you are expecting to gain weight, you believe you will fail in remaining thin and therefore the former body condition is manifested.

Don’t expect weight gain expect to remain, or accomplish, your idea weight and it shall be. Besides, if need be, you can always buy stretch pants; they are cheap.

Never worry about saving for a “Rainy Day”: In our panic, or fear of survival, that we will be caught in a financial bind, some day, we save for that dooms day. Saving for the Rainy Day insures that Rainy Day will arrive. It tells the Universe that you are expecting to experience a desperate moment of a financial bind; you believe you will fail in remaining abundant and therefore the former lack of finances will be manifested.

So you might ask, “Shouldn’t I save money?” Yes, it is a beneficial thing to save money. However, the question is why you are saving money. Are you doing it with the panicked idea that you will suffer later if you don’t? Better reasons might be to save for something specifically desired, save money with the emotion that you enjoy having a private little stash (no not pot) that you can dip into whenever you like for a desired luxurious indulgent or get away; expectation of the desired instead of the undesired.

Never intentionally buy, “Health Insurance”: When I say intentionally I mean that in most cases of employment, at least in Europe, you have no choice on the matter. A monthly Health insurance payment is automatically deducted; from you pay check without choice, before you ever see the check.

So if you have the choice, buying health insurance, in fear of survival, insures that you will become ill. It tells the Universe that you expect, one day, that you will be hooked up to wires and tubes in a hospital bed, which you believe that inevitably your health will fail and it will be manifested. In buying health insurance you are assuring failure of health. Remember the effects of thought on your body article.

This is a scary one I know. Just believe in your health, the natural function and the forever-ness of your body. I don’t believe in ageing. By all scientific studies, a reason for our ageing has never been found; they just can’t explain this occurrence. Therefore it’s just accepted as part of being human. The reason you age is because you believe you will.

You celebrate birthdays marking the passing of time, acknowledging growing ever closer to the end. I avoid using the word that states your decline. That three letter word preceding the years you have been on this earth. I made a decision, not too long ago, that I shall never again celebrate a birthday and if I do I am going to celebrate it with becoming three years younger. I have stop telling people my age, asking other’s of theirs and watching, reading or viewing media that is focused in the declination of the body.

See your body as healthy, strong, and young always and it shall be.

I use the example, Never keep your “Fat Pants”, Never worry about saving for a “Rainy Day” and Never intentionally buy, “Health Insurance”: as a catalyst, to talk about, the habit of expecting to fail, although you may want to heed the advice non-the-less.

We do so many things, without knowing of their consequences, why because we don’t know that they have consequences and have come to believe in, like the Scouts of America, “Always be prepared” Now I’m not saying that you should never be prepared. Laying down a path to insure an anxiety free smooth sailing experience saves time and stress. I always prepare for an out of town/or country thoroughly. Traveling in itself requires preparation of arrangements, routes and needs along the way. Because you must have a reservation to fly, know where you are driving (if you have a destination in mind) and I haven’t seen a plane, train or automobile, yet, that has installed a medicine cabinet, vending machine or clothes closet; save a semi-truck.

What I’m saying here is that always being prepared, be it for thicker thighs, financial need, or failing health, or anything that you prepare for in fear that you will experience suffering in some way, insures that you will inevitably fail and need the backup, the safety net, and the insurance. Preparing for the “Just in Case” attracts or manifests the Case, the failure.

Expect to succeed, to be well, strong, light, and abundant and you will manifest these desirable conditions.

Now for the last one, the really fun one, if at all possible don’t ever check the box, on a form, “Single” If there is a box labeled “other” check that one. If there isn’t make your own box. I said, if at all possible because in some cases, not many, they must know you relationship status in order to submit the form. But I still question this rule. (Please Note; this only applies to those who desire to be in a relationship)

Can you guess why I say never check the box labeled, “Single”?

Yep because if you announce that you are single you are announcing, focusing on and accepting the unwanted condition of being single. You are confirming your status, which in turn brings it to your thoughts, and of course insures the continued single experience, manifesting more single life experience. If you desire a relationship, love, you must think differently. I say make up your own box, label it “Available” uh, well that might get you into trouble or could possibly be fun. Maybe a box labeled, “Expecting Mr/Ms Right”

The point is to put out there, announce, and affirm the possibilities and expectation of what you desire. Besides, why is your relationship status, contingent upon anything? Somehow it’s become important when is not.

In closing, I say it’s important to live without placing limits, and setting yourself up for failure. Become aware of those unconscious habitual thoughts and actions, and ask yourself whether these ideas or beliefs are beneficial and manifest what you desire; if they do not then discard them. What do you do to prepare for failure?

Replace thoughts of failure with thoughts of success, abundance, health and love.

The ramifications of thought are awesome and give you all that you desire.

Anytime you do anything, out of fear of survival, you just survive.

You want to Thrive in luscious abundance so think only of thriving.

Be Well

Love Michelle


  1. Check out the new page "The Joys of Life Stories." Laugh, cry and rejoice in these true life stories.

    Also please note that I will be on Holiday April 22nd through the 25th. Off to Croatia, yippee!

  2. Hey Michelle,
    I like the way you think and the examples of how to think the correct way. We will miss you next week. Have a great time!!!

  3. Fabulous way of telling us to be careful of what we think, to change our thoughts.

    As we change our thoughts, our life so changes.

    When I change a thought, my whole body changes, all my feelings change. It is a marvelous transition.

    Thank you.

    Have a fabulous trip to Croatia!

  4. Dear Anonymous,
    I won't ever say that the way I think is the "correct way", but I will say it's mighty successful way.
    Thank you for everything!

  5. Dear JoAnna,

    I am so pleased to hear you affirming yourself, that you are on the right track and feel great about your progress.
    Thanks, I plan to enjoy some time with my stud muffin, I mean Jerome.
    Be Well
    Love Michelle

  6. I'll miss you, Michelle. Have a wonderful time in Croatia. I hear the beaches are wonderful. Interesting thoughts. I remember when I first became single, I left my ex's closet empty. It just never occurred to me to use it. And I was still sleeping on "my" side of the bed. I finally asked myself, why am I doing this? I don't really want him back. I immediately filled up "his" side with my stuff and tried to consciously sleep in the middle of the bed. I got rid of my fat pants.I felt better almost immediately.

  7. Delana,
    I'll miss you as well, Thank you. I am so looking forward to the waters and warmth. This winter was hard on me and the cold is only thing about Germany that I don't care for much. I did the exact same thing, I slept on "my" side of the bed for months, after I became single, and finally asked myself why; and made that conscious decision to sleep in the middle and felt better. It's great that you were so aware of what you were doing,; brava!
    I suppose I will probably take a notebook, on my trip, because I know that I will have ideas; my mind never seems to want to take a holiday.
    Thank you
    Be Well
    Love Michelle