Good day to all from my Skycastle in Germany. The day is grand and I am excited to be back to our journey through manifesting after a lovely holiday in Croatia. I love exploring new countries. We met many people from various cultures and background and had a very interesting time.
Today we are going to explore our innate guidance. We look outside of ourselves for the guidance to what we should do, where we should go and who and what we should be. We think other’s and our mind are the tools that guide; when in fact we have an innate guidance within us that will tell us our best direction every single time. Considering others ideas on how we should live only clutter’s our minds with irrelevant data. Their data is not our own. Our minds are often busy calculating and evaluating data from others; weighing and picking through a plethora of opinions that have no relevance to our lives.
The innate inner guidance I am talking about is our emotions. There has always been this question, when considering whether to participate or continue to participate in a relationship, should I listen to my heart or my mind? You should always listen to your heart. Now the confusion that occurs when deciding to listen to your heart, especially where love is concerned, is that we are not listening to way we feel, putting aside the fact that you love said person, when you are involved in the relationship. The angst that many experience, when deciding whether to go forward into a relationship or call an end to a relationship, is not because you love this person so you are in conflict it is because you fear something in the absence of this relationship. You may fear being alone and the painful withdrawal, unreasonably believing that love will not present itself again or that you will cause said person pain. Instead of listening to how we feel within a relationship, we go outside our emotions either to our brain or to others collecting the data for our case. If you are very convinced that you love said person therefore deducting that you should be with the person you will collect data to prove you should be in the relationship. If you do not feel strong in your commitment within the relationship you seek, outside of your emotions, support in the direction you should go.
Our emotions tell us every single time whether we should follow through with something or not. Your emotions are your guide. It is important to pay attention to your emotions. When we are aligned with who we really are, when we are aligned with our Source we feel good. We feel good because we are in agreement with how Source feels about us and who we really are. When we feel bad it is because we are feeling, about ourselves, something that Source knows is not true.
When you feel bad it is an indication, every time, that you are thinking something that is untrue about yourself. In addition when your thoughts are of an unwanted thing then you will feel bad and that is your emotional indication that what you are thinking about is not what you want to manifest or who you are.
Forget about what is right or wrong, there is no such thing. The only questions you ever have to ask yourself when considering a direction is, “Does this decision grow me in the way I want? What decision will evolve me ever closer to the person I want to be? What decision will bring me joy?” Pay attention to how you feel when you consider each option. When you practice this method then your decision will always be what is called “right”
Considering others opinions will confuse you every time because their opinion is based on their lives and experience not yours. Others insist on their desires, either passively or aggressively, with their agenda. Others agenda’s for your life is their desire for you to make them feel good, to please them; and that is not your job. Nor could you possibly please everyone with an opinion.
Listening to others opinions pulls you out of alignment with yourself/Source. And when you are out of alignment you will manifest, every single time, that which you do not want.
I spent many many years doing and being what others wished me to be and do. I listened to what religion said was right and good. I listened to who I considered to be wiser than I. I listened to what the family believed I should do and tried, within all of these opinions, to be good and right; and never felt joy. Most of the time I just felt guilty for desiring something different than the masses. Sure I felt accepted, as I ran around in circles attempting to please everyone, but I never felt joy.
When I was persecuted for not giving up my life to take care of a family member, who had manifested illness their whole life in which my childhood was devoured, I felt guilt. The guilt was eating away at me each time I pulled away, argued my case in my head, and returned to caring for that family member because I allowed the guilt to guide me. It was their guilt not mine. My emotional guidance told me I was only responsible for manifesting my own joyful life but then in listening to others opinions I fell out of alignment and felt bad.
Guilt, fear, depression, anger and sadness are all emotional indications that what I am thinking or believing does not match what Source knows to be true.
When you are degrading, hating or judging yourself you are in conflict with what Source knows to be true and therefore you feel bad.
Pay attention to what your emotions are telling you. If you feel bad it is because you are thinking something untrue or unwanted. Recall, when you were a child, how you felt when someone scolded you telling you that you were wrong or bad; every time you were not bad or wrong you were only you. But receiving this information made you feel bad and wrong. The only reason you felt like a bad person was because you knew that it was not true. Because what you were hearing was in conflict with who you really are.
It is time to focus in on what makes you feel good, what brings you joy. If you think/believe only of what you want or what is joyful to you then you will manifest these things. What others think is absolutely not important.
Joy is the only worthy goal. Because within doing, being and having joyful things you are in alignment. And being in alignment is pure ecstasy. Being in alignment with Source and who you really are is what you want.
The answer to every question is, think only about what you want. Find a good feeling thought and hold it in your mind, feel it and then add another good feeling thought, feel it. As you do this more good feeling thoughts will naturally join and expand the good feeling.
Remember, if you are feeling bad then you are thinking or believing something unwanted and untrue.
Remember; who you really are, others opinion matter not, and the answer every single time is, focus on what you want; Return, return, return to the good feeling thought, return to thinking about that which you want to manifest. Let your emotions be your guide and the more you practice this the quicker you will return to feeling good and focusing on what you want to be your life experience; not others life experience.
Return to who you really are and good feelings will return to you.